Deepika Padukone - shes not like that!

I just read everywhere how 'loose' deepika padukone was because..... hold your breath..she kissed her boyfriend in public!!!

I thought i'd write this post as these accusations are just so bloody downright unfair!!

Firstly the girl is in 'one' relationship so what is so wrong with what she did. Go abroad to any western country and see how people in love behave openly, and nobody stares at them, in fact nobody even bothers to notice them. And before anybody (moralistic indian) bombards me about the great differance between their (western) culture and our 'holy - moral' indian culture, when you walk the streets of london or NY even in a short skirt you will never be eve teased. But here in great bharatdesh, even if you are wearing a salwar khameez chances are you will be eve teased if your walking on a crowded street.

So grow uo for Gods sake and dont consider a kiss as something that stamps a girl as loose!

Deepika in fact is one of the most open straightfoward actresses (the one is kareena kapoor). Give her due credit for she has not succembed to the pressure of sleeping around for money or roles as many of our other actresses have who keep a nice homely girl facade!
There are agents in delhi and Mumbai who procure actresses for business men who pay the moon for a nights stand. Miss Padukone has refused all such offers and beleieve e i know what im talking about.

I dont understand the intellectual abilities of these people who make such claims that this or that woman is loose only because she loves in all honesty. These same people do not mind voting for say a Jayalalitha who was mistress for years of her mentor. Or jayaprada, i mean tell me why is she elected to the Samajwadi party? For her ability to think (Hah) or her ability to orate (Bah!) or solely for her association with Amar Singh.

These are the same people who will perhaps think a Rani Mukherjee/priyanka chopra is of good charcter because they keep ther personal life under wraps, and no problem with that. People will respect Hema malini (i do too) although she married a much married dharmendra , i dont judge her for that - love happens in all circumstances. But because poor deepika dresses fab and talks open and behaves as her heart tell her with no facade she is termed loose!

When will the mindset of men and women of country change i wonder. i dont think education has done anything for it to change. all these bloggers who write are educated people and they think like this! Sad!

A note to deepika if she ever reads this :) - The Kapoor khandaan is as moralistic, chauvinistic as these guys who lable you you as loose - You see raj kapoor had a blast with all his heroines yet his wife had to be of impeccable repute, now you may say that was eons ago. But i think not much has changed in the stagnated kapoor khandaan. Ranbir's mom said something silly about how nowadays guys have to come to terms with their girlfriends having been in relationhips before (neetu kapoor grow up, seriously!)

His sister Riddhima kapoor sahni said somwthing even sillier. She said the women in the kapoor khandaan dont act and so she was upset with cousins karisma and kareena! Huh!! Both these girls have worked their asses off to be successful actress's and you who have done nothing but look pretty and superficially poised and marry some delhi guy, how can you criticise them? And why do you model for those jewellry adverts all the time, is modelling ok but acting not?

So deepika you might also want to act fake and coy and all that to please the kapoor khandaan! But please dont, dont loose your identity for a bunch of stagnated fools.